What is your role in this marriage?
What do you see my role in this marriage to be?
What do you expect your responsibilities to be?
What do you expect my responsibilities to be?
What are your general expectations for our marriage?
How do you think it’s going?
What do you feel you have been doing really well?
What are all the things you see that I do well?
How do you feel things are going in our marriage and family?
Is there anything you are really happy about?
Anything frustrated about?
Is there anything in life that is burdening you?
How can I pray for you?
How have you been praying for me?
Here’s how you can pray for me.
What do you want me to change and why?
What are you seeking to change about yourself and why?
Do you think this will help you? Why or why not?
If this only serves to help me, would that be ok with you?