What is your role in this marriage?
TG – provider, very very part time educator, fixer, masseuse, bringer of calm & tranquility, doctor, bill payer
TL – teacher, cook, nurse, caregiver, housekeeper, planner, organizer, secretary,
What do you see my role in this marriage to be?
TG – partner to relax or play or talk or debate with
TL – sharer in life of responsibilities and fun, listener, collaborator, partner
What do you expect your responsibilities to be?
TG – (I don’t mind washing and drying clothes). I don’t mind putting away my clothes. Water garden, check on chickens
TL – dishes, laundry, vacuum, bathrooms, sweep, mopping, extra cleaning, mail filing,
What do you expect my responsibilities to be?
TG – take & pick up kids, feed kids,
TL – you do garden, chickens, bills,
Family-
Change our routine of tg vegging & TL cleaning for family time…
Activity
Devo
Games
Diy kits
What are your general expectations for our marriage?
TL – That we care for and support each other and be a model relationship for our kids to see and want. That we would be a united front in parenting and each others strongest supporter and encourager
TG – sex, time off phones to talk
TL – Need time just being together, enjoy talks in the kitchen and car
How do you think it’s going?
1-10 (10best)
TG – 5, at each others throats, don’t have much fun together. Not totally unhappy, but a lot lacking.
TL – 5 too much dissention and frustration and general meanness and lack of support (undermining)
Areas for growth. 🙂
If we could change one thing or work on one area?
TG – sleeping naked
TL – weekly check-in
What do you feel you have been doing really well?
TG – not yelling at kids as much, better at getting them calm (still want to work on other projects that benefit us just don’t have much time.
What are all the things you see that I do well?
How do you feel things are going in our marriage and family?
Is there anything you are really happy about?
Anything frustrated about?
Is there anything in life that is burdening you?
How can I pray for you?
How have you been praying for me?
Here’s how you can pray for me.
What do you want me to change and why?
What are you seeking to change about yourself and why?
Do you think this will help you? Why or why not?
If this only serves to help me, would that be ok with you?